The Importance of a Solid Support System

I think I can speak for many of us when I say we take advantage of how good we have it in life.  We tend to overlook aspects of our daily lives, and you don’t realize the importance of these facts until you’re in a time of crisis.  Victims of domestic violence and sexual assault need a strong support system to get through the trauma they’ve endured, whether they realize it or not.  

In the past couple months, I have come to notice that having a strong support system is a common characteristic needed to get through the overwhelming, hard times for these women.  I have seen a mother of two young children struggle to make it on her own and create a life for her and her children away from their domestic abuse situation because she had absolutely no support from any loved ones.  I have also seen a woman make the decision to finally leave her abusive husband; although she did not have much money or self-esteem, she was lucky enough to have so many caring individuals in her life that helped her immensely.  They gave her a temporary place to stay, provided the first couple months rent for her new apartment, and helped take care of her dog while she began moving out.  

Moral of the story is, take a moment to reflect on the people you have in your life.  Were they there for you when you needed them the most?  If so, you are luckier than you know.  Hug your loved ones, pay it forward, and express how grateful you are.  If you see someone in need of help, don’t be afraid to lend a helping hand.  

Written by: Madison H., AmeriCorps